Anyway, last night I told my husband that I want to try a strap-on on him and he was totally disgusted with the idea. I proposed this to him because of 2 reasons. First, we had a talk 2 weeks ago and he told me that he would like to try new things in the bedroom. Second, I have heard that it is really nice for guys. I do not like the fact that he came with the idea of spicing things, but he only wants me to dress up and stuff.
Also, he told me that he is not gay and this is the main reason why he doesn't want his ass being penetrated by a fake D. I don't think that only gay people are enjoying it.
Well, it is subjective thing. It could be emotional too. I'm not gay, but I tried and my female partner, from time to time, "explore" my boundaries. It could be very exciting, bu it have to be voluntarily... without any pushing.
I found by accident that having my back and spine stroked delicately, softly up and down round and round, then she progressively got lower with less height. That soft stroking made me squirm when she progressed to the cheeks of my arse, the drawing progressively down between my legs. At this point I was prone as she worked with the same delicate touch my Perenium and opening of my arse. When she inserted a finger a exploded blowing one of my biggest ever loads. Stayed hard though and thanked her in the conventional manner. Done correctly it is wonderful
Hi all , Anal is great fun , at least for Me it is Definately start with a small toy / Buttplug / 1 finger , After Uve got Ur man to take a Buttplug willingly , U can switch it for a slightly bigger buttplug that vibrates (for that extra thrill) then steadily work Ur way Up in The Length and Diameter of the toy
This usually doesnt happen in 1 night , and it might take a few nights with the starter toy before He might try something bigger
As a show of Support maybe get Urself the same buttplug so U can both experience it together
Something No1 ever mentions when discussing Anal is Lubrication , dont skimp on lubrication Honestly : KY Jelly and all these other "Lubes" arent that great
The best Anal Lubricant is a mix of (good 'ol) Coconut Oil , a Splash of Sunflower Cooking Oil and a little bit of Full Fat (60% fat) Margarine (dont knock it till Uve tried it)
Another thing is consistency : It does take a while to stretch an Ass open and if U dont regularly train it , itll start shrinking i.t.o how big itll stretch open
first of all dont ask him directly. tease his sensitive area, like the ball and ass. play that area, lick it n massage it. then slowly try to put one finger in, be gentle.